- He/She is great @ mind games= he/She knows how to press your buttons= MANIPULATION
-He/She loves creating conflict between family member's= the game is ON like, the family members become like pieces of a chess board
-"All is about ME"
- I come first so do My Needs
-I am never wrong
_ OH isn't she or he so charming, likable to the outer world?, but in reality @ home the same person changes to be a controlling or a passive aggressive Monster
-The expectations of this parent are nearly impossible to fulfill, so there is a constant bombs of criticism trowed @ you and it doesn't matter what you do, he/she is never happy
-Forget about getting any kind of empathy, because this individual cannot form any relations of intimacy, doesn't matter if is loving other half, a child or even friends